I once sat next to an elderly gentleman at a symphony concert at the
Koger Center in Columbia, South Carolina. We had a nice chat. He was
very friendly, and his speaking manner was slow and clear. I left after
the concert with the impression that he was someone important, maybe a
retired college dean, or a company executive, or whatever. Actually, I
had no idea who he was. I still don't. All I knew about him was the way he spoke. His
manner of speech gave me the idea that he was influential and powerful.
One
thing that I have often noted about many important people: U.S.
presidents, corporate CEO's, university presidents--is that they do not
talk too fast. Many of us chatter like chipmunks when we get behind a
podium. That makes us sound breathless and insecure. People with power
usually sound relaxed and confident. Now, one also does not want to
speak too slowly, but, really, speakers who are too fast never seem to
sound serious.
Good speakers do, of course, also vary
their rate of speech: sometimes faster, sometimes slower. Variety helps
the audience stay interested, but too much speed keeps people from
sounding important.
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